Every time I hear these words, it interests me a lot. Easy to say, very difficult to implement. In this world where people are in a rat race…everyone have a positive and a negative side. For each individual there are certain traits we enjoy and certain traits that we don’t.
The question that comes to my mind is how we deal with the negative side. Do we ignore it? Wouldn’t that make us alienated from the world. Would ignoring the person solve the problem…would it make a difference? Instead…we can ignore the negative attributes and enjoy the positive ones…at least now we know what to expect!
Reflect! Get past the communication impasse. Dig deep into the background…is this his nature….part of the person’s being or is it circumstantial. We can go around talking to other people…getting their ideas and perception. But, would that help? Talk to that person, discuss things out. Start a meaningful conversation. Let the other person stand in your shoes and see your perspective of things. At the same time, let us also see the other side. Reflect and reflect again!
People are imperfect. They do have flaws. But once you know the flaws, you can figure out how to deal with it. Accept the flaws! Live with it!
The question that comes to my mind is how we deal with the negative side. Do we ignore it? Wouldn’t that make us alienated from the world. Would ignoring the person solve the problem…would it make a difference? Instead…we can ignore the negative attributes and enjoy the positive ones…at least now we know what to expect!
Reflect! Get past the communication impasse. Dig deep into the background…is this his nature….part of the person’s being or is it circumstantial. We can go around talking to other people…getting their ideas and perception. But, would that help? Talk to that person, discuss things out. Start a meaningful conversation. Let the other person stand in your shoes and see your perspective of things. At the same time, let us also see the other side. Reflect and reflect again!
People are imperfect. They do have flaws. But once you know the flaws, you can figure out how to deal with it. Accept the flaws! Live with it!
Great..........but you know if we tried to make life easy it only become complicated......
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